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Have you ever asked
her how it felt for her to be locked up with you? No. Ask her. How did it feel for you to
be locked when I was like– You’re acting like– ask her like you
really want to know. How did you feel
being locked up with me? There you go. Now, let me show you how a
woman answers a question. Close your eyes. Take a breath. Yeah, let it out. Now what you do is you let
your heart use your lips. Don’t think about it. When you were locked up– Eight years. –it was terrible.
It was terrible. Terrible’s not a feeling. It was the worst, worst part
of my life, when I was only 20, and I hadn’t done anything. And I went to jail with you. And I just had to get
strength from anywhere to not get my hopes up
just to be let down, over and over and
over and over again. And you never even
asked me how I felt. What else? Look at her. Please forgive me. Please forgive me. Please forgive me. Please forgive me. Did you see how that
feels, to close your eyes and let your heart
use your mouth? That’s how a woman talks. OK. A woman ain’t going up
here to argue with no man, because she going
to get beat down. But if you go there– you understand– into here? It make me cry. No, it speaks to you
on a whole ‘nother level.

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